Rejection : Get over it

Rejection is something we are afraid of and it leaves us all devastated and hurt. But it doesn't mean that your life is ended. You've got many things to do, many dreams to make them come true and it will happen when you'll move on. I'll tell you how :

1) Try to forget it - I know it's difficult but NOT impossible. If he/she rejected you, it's their loss not yours. You deserve better. Keep your chin up and be confident like you were before. Don't let anyone shatter your confidence and self esteem.

2) Find someone to like - This thing worked for me. You can start liking someone if you think they are the one, but don't be too desperate. This may help you to forget them.

3) Put on your earphones and enjoy the music - Try not to listen some crazy in love songs or it will remind you of him/her and make you sad again. Try to listen some inspirational songs.

4) Create a hobby - Do what you love or join a hobby class. It could be dancing, singing, playing an instrument, jogging and exercise or maybe yoga or meditation for inner peace.

5) Give yourself a makeover - It can be an awesome hairstyle you always wanted or maybe a funky tattoo. Try new variety of clothes.

6) Cry it out - Let all your feelings out. So next time you won't cry too much for the same thing.

7) Go out - it doesn't mean you have to go out with someone special. It could be your close friends or your family. If you don't have anyone, go out alone. This way you'll have some ME time.

8) Write, write and write - Let it be a song, poem or a diary entry. 

9) Share your feelings with a trusted friend or a family member - Trust me, it helps.

10) Time heals - You can't get over it just overnight. It will take time and you'll start to feel better.

These were my suggestions, what about you? Share you experiences in comments.

Crush

Oh yeah I'm talking about crushes. I'm sure we all like someone at a certain time in life, whether it's high school, college or even office. He/She might be our classmate, co-worker or neighbor. We get too much attracted to them that we think they are the only one in this world. Crushing is sometimes sweet or sometimes bitter, depends on our experiences. I remember I had my first crush when I was in 9th grade and he didn't felt the same way like I did. I was like head-over-heels for him, didn't know that I will end up being hurt and with lower self esteem. I'm gonna tell you some tips to tell if he/she's interested in you -

1) They stare at you every time or most of the time - This is an obvious sign. Whenever you catch him/her looking at you and then they look away, this could be a sign that they're interested in you.

2) They act strange when you are around - they may be very confident and witty, but when are around them they'll become nervous.

3) They try to talk with you - His body language can tell that he wants to make contact with you. He seems to be a little impatient when you are looking at him.

4) He seems to be jealous when you're talking to other guys/girls.

5) You always find him wherever you go - you see them mostly in recess.

6) His/her friends act weird when you are around - May be he told his/her friends that he likes you.

7) He brags in front of you.

8) If he's your classmate, he'll try to help you with assignments.

9) He notices even small things that you do - he may ask that you have colored your hair or you got a new hairstyle.

10) He agrees to whatever you say - It sounds pleasing but it's a sign that may be he's fake.

These were the main signs so far. If you have any tips or suggestions, feel free to comment :)

Introduction

It's my first post..and yeah I'm a teen. So I am just like you people, I've got problems with myself, always confused in my life, I mess things up and often get misunderstood. And I've made this blog so that I can relate to many of you. If you are reading this post till end, you'll realize that we've got something common.
So I'm gonna discuss every teen related stuff here like relationships, friends, family, school and every possible stuff which we can talk about. In these years we all live in a misunderstanding i.e we know everything but it's not true...But it's normal ! So I'm not gonna make you bore. I'll be posting many things about you and me...till then Be right back :)